The title says it all: Church rules versus Bible rules. And the last line of the article states "I want" versus what God commands. Both parties are wrong and that is the problem that is being projected upon all humans. Religion is treated like various forms to worship the same God, when in reality, most of it is just man made paganism robed in Christian reason. Either our doctrines come from Jesus Christ or they are against (anti) Christ (2 John 1:7-10).